Embracing the Choices of Now: Wisdom from those at End-of-Life

Abstract

Background: There is little research focused on the elderly, despite this being the fastest-growing age group. The last phase of life brings with it unique wisdom and life advice that can be used to guide all people in their journeys. Illness or coming to an older age can begin a journey of growth and acceptance. The purpose of this study was to provide scholarship detailing advice and learnings of those in this unique and final life stage.Methods: Nine participants were interviewed, and transcripts were analyzed in a phenomenological manner.Results: Participants discussed topics of pain, family, and marital success. The importance of choice in the lives we live, as well as marriage as hard work, were some main trends that presented.Conclusions: Family was the most important part of these lives; however, with or without family, one also benefits from a sense of accomplishment and pride in themselves.Trial registration: N/A