Lethal and sublethal effects of pesticides on non‐target organisms are one of the causes of the current decline of many insect species. However, research in the past decades has focused primarily on pollinators, although other beneficial non‐target organisms such as parasitic wasps may also be affected. We studied the sublethal effects of the four insecticides acetamiprid, dimethoate, flupyradifurone, and sulfoxaflor on pheromone‐mediated sexual communication and olfactory host finding of the parasitic wasp Nasonia vitripennis. All agents target cholinergic neurons, which are involved in the processing of chemical information by insects. We applied insecticide doses topically and tested the response of treated wasps to sex pheromones and host‐associated chemical cues. Additionally, we investigated the mating rate of insecticide‐treated wasps. The pheromone response of females surviving insecticide treatment was disrupted by acetamiprid (≥0.63 ng), dimethoate (≥0.105 ng) and flupyradifurone (≥21ng), while sulfoxaflor had no significant effects at the tested doses. Olfactory host finding was affected by all insecticides (acetamiprid: ≥1.05 ng, dimethoate: ≥0.105 ng, flupyradifurone: ≥5.25 ng, sulfoxaflor: ≥0.52 ng). Remarkably, females treated with ≥0.21 ng dimethoate even avoided host odor. The mating rate of treated N. vitripennis couples was decreased by acetamiprid (6.3 ng), flupyradifurone (≥2.63 ng) and sulfoxaflor (2.63 ng) while dimethoate showed only minor effects. Finally, we determined the amount of artificial nectar consumed by N. vitripennis females within 48 hours. Considering this amount (approximately 2 µl) and the maximum concentrations of the insecticides reported in nectar, tested doses can be considered field realistic. Our results suggest that exposure of parasitic wasps to field‐realistic doses of insecticides targeting the cholinergic system reduces their effectiveness as natural enemies by impairing the olfactory sense.