“…For example, drawing on the sentiments above from Brueggemann, I have begun to explore the impact of experiential avoidance (i.e., that desire to not have reality pointed out) on religious practice. In one study, we identified longitudinal associations between religious exploration, experiential avoidance, and virtue (Jankowski, Murphy, et al, 2022) while another longitudinal study highlighted the mediation effect of experiential avoidance on the relationship between prayer and mental health (Lowe et al, 2022). These findings bring about an emerging empirical backdrop to my belief that authentic Christian spirituality (as modeled so well by Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane) is one that ultimately moves us closer to the reality of ourselves, of others, and of the world—even if that reality is uncomfortable or difficult to accept.…”