The cable-stayed fastening-hanging cantilever construction method has been widely used in the construction of arch bridges. Hanging cables’ parametric vibration frequently appears during the cantilever construction stage of arch rings. However, there is a lack of research on hanging cables’ parametric vibration as well as its control strategies for inerter dampers. Although Runge-Kutta method can achieve the transient response of cables’ parametric vibration under arbitrarily support excitation, it might not achieve the large-amplitude solution due to inappropriate initial conditions. Therefore, parametric vibration equation of hanging cable with parallel inerter damper was established and solved both by Runge-Kutta method and method of multiple scales(MMS). The steady-state solution of hanging cables calculated by Runge-Kutta method and its dependence on initial conditions were discussed and analyzed. Numerical stability of Runge-Kutta solution was also investigated by analyzing the phase portraits of multiple-scale solution. Besides, the influence of inerter damper on Runge-Kutta solutions’ numerical stability and initial condition dependence was discussed and explained. Finally, a general method to determine initial conditions of Runge-Kutta method was proposed to achieve large-amplitude solution of hanging cables’ parametric vibration under arbitrary support excitation. The results indicate that different initial conditions cause Runge-Kutta’s transient amplitude to develop along different phase trajectories, and finally to converge to different steady-state solutions. The inerter damper changes the critical phase trajectory of cable-inerter system, which shifts the region of reasonable initial conditions. Runge-Kutta steady-state solutions with inerter damper, solved by the initial conditions for no inerter damper case, may be the small-amplitude solutions, which may lead to overestimation of the control effect of inerter dampers. This study provides a general method to determine initial conditions of Runge-Kutta method for cables’ parametric vibration, which provides a reference for future parametric vibration studies.