Many individuals with systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE) face significant challenges manifesting their family planning goals due to numerous factors, including disease-related complications, treatment-induced effects, immunological factors, self-imposed limitations, and the socioeconomic impacts of having a chronic disease. Instances of unexplained infertility are also prevalent. Encouragingly, advancements in treatment modalities, risk factor management, specialized training within the medical community, and enhanced patient/provider education have contributed to an increase in successful pregnancies among SLE patients, fostering a safer, more promising reproductive landscape. However, despite advances, individuals with SLE continue to struggle with the complexities of family building. This review explores infertility and pregnancy outcomes in SLE, fertility preservation, the role of assisted reproductive technology, and considerations for tailoring these approaches to SLE patients.