“…For many of us, the defining task of our therapeutic practice is a quest to help our clients make more congruent meanings out of the events of their lives. At our most optimistic, we seek to help our clients find their way to piecing together stories of tragedy into narratives and sequences that make life, at best, more liveable and, at worst, slightly less frightening (Byng-Hall, 1997;Gibney, 1999;Flaskas, 2002bFlaskas, , 2005Pocock, 2005;Dallos, 2006aDallos, , 2006bByrne & McCarthy, 2007;Flaskas, 2007a). It would make sense, then, that we also come to try to find our way in making sense of our clients, and their relating to us, in a form that serves this admirable (Rober, 1999;Flaskas, 2002aFlaskas, , pp.…”