Fluctuation-dissipation relations have received significant attention as a potential method for defining an effective temperature in nonequilibrium systems. The successful development of an effective temperature would be an important step in the application of statistical mechanics principles to systems driven far from equilibrium. Many of the systems of interest are sufficiently dense that they are close to the jamming transition, a point at which interesting correlations develop. Here we study the response function in a driven system of plastic beads as a function of the density in order to elucidate the impact of the jamming transition on the use of fluctuation-dissipation relations. The focus is on measuring the response function for applied shear stress. We find that even when the amplitude of the applied stress leads to a linear response in the strain, the time scale of the response is dependent on the direction of the applied stress. The identification of an "effective temperature" for systems driven far from equilibrium that is analogous to a true thermodynamic temperature would represent a major step toward developing a general theory of nonequilibrium behavior. One of the reasons that the concept of an "effective temperature" is so attractive is the centrality of real temperature in thermodynamics and statistical physics. At its most basic, temperature defines when two systems are in thermodynamic equilibrium and determines the direction of heat flow, if any, for systems in contact. Equipartition provides a connection between temperature and average quantities. Temperature enters the relation between thermodynamic quantities, such as specific heat and derivatives of free energies. Einsteintype relations relate various transport coefficients, such as diffusion constants and viscosities, through the temperature. Finally, in linear response theory, temperature enters the relationship between time (or frequency) dependent response functions and correlation functions. The challenge for studies of nonequilibrium systems is the determination of which, if any, of the above uses of temperature is meaningful as an effective temperature. To be a useful concept, a minimum expectation is that multiple definitions of effective temperature agree, and that there is an understanding of why some definitions agree and others do not.The use of effective temperatures in driven systems has a relatively diverse history. For example, granular flows are often characterized by a "granular" temperature that is based on the average kinetic energy of the particles. Another approach can be described as a "configurational" temperature. In these studies, (usually with dense granular matter) the "atoms" are grains, and the phase space is the set of static mechanical configurations in which they can be arranged. By considering all possible jammed configurations, entropy as a function of density is calculated and used to define an effective temperature [1,2,3]. Another approach has been to focus on fluctuations in the system as a means ...