“…If the comparer can think, “If that person can do it, I can do it,” then they have selected a compatible model, but if the comparer can think, “Of course that person can do it, they are so much better than me,” then they have selected an incompatible model. If the comparer tends to compare themselves with the teachers, it is wise for the teacher to exhibit a “coping model” (Bucura, 2019) in which the teacher models an appropriate amount of vulnerability, accepts errors as part of the learning process, and employs a “growth mind-set” (for excellent reading on “growth mind-set,” see Davis, 2017; Dweck, 2000). In working to create positive vicarious experiences, it is helpful for students, particularly the “comparer,” to set their own progress goals.…”