Background
Autistic children have been shown to have lower friendship quality, less complete definitions of friendships, and higher levels of loneliness than their non-autistic peers. However, no known studies have explored sex differences in autistic children’s understanding of friendships and perceptions of loneliness across development. Non-autistic children begin to prioritize affection and intimacy in friendships during adolescence, and adolescent girls, regardless of diagnosis, report having higher friendship quality than boys. Higher friendship quality is further associated with reduced loneliness in autistic and non-autistic children. Here, we explored how autistic and non-autistic boys and girls describe their friends, define the meaning of friendship, and experience feelings of loneliness across development.
Methods
This mixed-methods study analyzed the transcribed clinical evaluations of 58 autistic children (29 girls) matched to 42 non-autistic children (21 girls) on age and IQ. Transcripts were coded for four themes that children used to define friendships – personality, companionship, dependability, and intimacy – and for perceived loneliness. We then compared these codes across diagnosis, sex, and age. Thematic analyses were further implemented to gain a more holistic understanding of children’s reported friendships and perceived loneliness.
Results
Girls, regardless of diagnosis, were more likely than boys to refer to personality when defining the meaning of friendship, and the likelihood of referring to dependability and intimacy increased with age. Most children reported having at least one friend, though several autistic adolescents reported not having friends or were uncertain whether they had friends. While autistic and non-autistic boys and girls were equally likely to report feeling lonely at times, several autistic girls and boys reported being frequently lonely.
Limitations:
This study was a secondary data analysis. The standardized set of questions on the ADOS limited the amount of information that children provided about their friendships and perceptions of loneliness.
Conclusion
As with non-autistic children, autistic children acquire a more complex understanding of friendship throughout development. However, as children begin to prioritize dependability and intimacy in friendships, autistic adolescents may have difficulty developing friendships characterized by these themes. While the friendships of autistic girls are qualitatively similar to those of non-autistic girls, they are as likely as autistic boys to report feelings of loneliness.