“…I look at my mother and recognize the work that women do when things are breaking up (Ahmed, 2016), literally and symbolically. Care can be hard work, involving emotional labor, anxiety, grief, satisfaction, fatigue; both for the care‐giver and the care‐receiver (Chatzidakis et al., 2020; Kipp & Hawkins, 2022). But, it is also mutually rewarding, involving empathy, attentiveness, compassion, love, generosity, reciprocity, embodied relationality, shared responsibility and affect (Diprose, 2014; Butler, 2004; Fotaki & Harding, 2017; Pullen & Rhodes, 2015, 2021).…”