“…There is also a broad consensus in the literature to suggest that women engage in disproportionate amounts of emotion work, particularly although not exclusively with a view to ensuring the well-being of other family members. (Froyum, 2018; Minnotte et al, 2010), to the extent that they could be considered “emotion experts” (Thomeer et al, 2013: 153) or “emotional gatekeepers” (Denham et al, 2010: 45). Nevertheless, for our study participants, illness seemed to make family emotion work less self-evident, shattering the illusion that such work is necessarily spontaneous, effortless, and a natural expression of motherly love (Erickson, 2005; Hochschild, 1983).…”