Local samples of quiescent galaxies with dynamically measured black hole masses (M bh ) may suffer from an angular resolution-related selection effect, which could bias the observed scaling relations between M bh and host galaxy properties away from the intrinsic relations. In particular, previous work has shown that the observed M bh -M star relation is more strongly biased than the M bh -σ relation. Local samples of active galactic nuclei (AGN) do not suffer from this selection effect, as in these samples M bh is estimated from megamasers and/or reverberation mapping-based techniques. With the exception of megamasers, M bh -estimates in these AGN samples are proportional to a virial coefficient f vir . Direct modelling of the broad line region suggests that f vir ∼ 3.5. However, this results in a M bh -M star relation for AGN which lies below and is steeper than the one observed for quiescent black hole samples. A similar though milder trend is seen for the M bh -σ relation. Matching the high-mass end of the M bh -M star and M bh -σ relations observed in quiescent samples requires f vir 15 and f vir 7, respectively. On the other hand, f vir ∼ 3.5 yields M bh -σ and M bh -M star relations for AGN which are remarkably consistent with the expected "intrinsic" correlations for quiescent samples (i.e., once account has been made of the angular resolution-related selection effect), providing additional evidence that the sample of local quiescent black holes is biased. We also show that, as is the case for quiescent black holes, the M bh -M star scaling relation of AGN is driven by σ, thus providing additional key constraints to black hole-galaxy co-evolution models.