“…'Not good enough parenting'-acting in ways that do not meet these requirements-causes adaptations such as lack of love and commitment that, in turn, lead to insecurity, low self-esteem, and problems with peer relationships. Lack of or inconsistent controls lead to conduct disorder, delinquency and crime, and neglect and under-stimulation (Hoghughi and Speigh 1998). Interestingly for the current argument, Hoghughi and Speigh (1998:295) suggest that … governments should be regarded as the parents of society.…”