“…Therapist responses to blame and maintaining neutrality. Therapists took three main positions in response to blame: alignment, by acknowledging or stating a belief about the blame (Friedlander, Heatherington and Marrs, 2000;Parker and O'Reilly, 2012); disalignment by ignoring and diverting the conversation away from the blame (Friedlander et al, 2000;Pote et al, 2011;Stancombe and White, 2005); or through neutrality by reframing the blaming talk in ways that are consistent with the frame of family therapy. Therapists can reframe talk by focusing on emotions, framing the problem in the context of the relationship, redirecting to talk about resolutions, or using metaphors to expand the theme of the discussion (Friedlander et al, 2000;O'Reilly, 2005b).…”