Grandparents’ Perspectives on Parent-Adult Child Relationships During the Transition to Grandparenthood

Abstract

Abstract:Objective:The aim of this study on the transition to grandparenthood is to capture grandparents' perspectives on their relationship and communication with their adult children when their adult children was expecting their first child or became new parents within the past year. More specifically, the study aimed to uncover 1) Intergenerational issues identified by grandparents during the transition to grandparenthood and 2) Factors influencing grandparents' communication and relationships with their adult children during this time of family transition. Method:Participants were 19 grandparents in the U.S., 15 grandmothers and 4 grandfathers who were about to welcome the first child of one of their children (N = 8), who had welcomed the first child of one of their children in the past year (N = 10), or who had both a child who was expecting and a child who had welcomed their first child within the past year (N = 1). Qualitative data analysis was conducted on transcripts from the grandparent interviews utilizing the constant comparative technique and thematic analysis to identify categories and emergent themes. Results:Grandparent participants shared their perspectives on the intergenerational transmission of parenting practices, reflected on changes in parental roles over time, and identified communication facilitator and barriers during this time of transition. These categories and emergent themes are explicated in the results section along with supporting excerpts from grandparent interviews. Conclusion:The transition to grandparenthood impacts communication and relationships between grandparents and their adult children by shaping the content, frequency, and medium of communication. Understanding grandparents' perspectives on this time of transition adds to existing research on families focused mainly on the adult child's perspective.

Parenting young adults across social class: A review and synthesis

“…In addition to childhood socialization processes (Manning et al., 2011; Pearce & Thornton, 2007) and direct communication around sex and relationships (Allison, 2016; Trinh et al., 2014), parents can shape the next generation's transition to parenthood by providing emotional, practical, and material support after the birth of a child (Cooney, 2021; Dunifon et al., 2018; Mazelis & Mykyta, 2011; Mustillo et al., 2021). The transition to parenthood effects changes in the composition of couples' social networks (Bost et al., 2002) as well as the relational dynamics between generations (Bergman et al., 2010; Dun, 2010; Dun & Sears, 2017; Munz, 2017). Expecting and new parents tend to increase contact with close kin—including their own parents, the (expectant) grandparents (Belsky & Rovine, 1984).…”