Imagine that there would be no hindrances, challenges, and struggles in transformative learning. Whenever encountering knowledge or viewpoints that do not automatically fit with our existing beliefs, we would as rational agents calculate the difference between the perceived new knowledge and our set of taken-for-granted assumptions. We would turn on the process of critical reflection to check whether there is a need to modify not only our belief system but also our practical approaches and actions, our ways of contributing in our environment, and to apply our insights directly into our actions. Consequently, our work as adult educators would be really easy, or perhaps we would soon find our profession in extinction due to a lack of need for it. Yet, the reality often is far from this. Transformative learning, while offering many highly valued outcomes and even signifiers of adulthood, requires us to face our limitations, our imperfections and gaps in our existing understanding. It calls us to courageously step out of our taken-for-granted ways of thinking, being, and acting to give up something that used to bring us sense of safety in our encounters with the world (Mälkki, 2019; Mälkki & Green, 2014, 2016). We are invited to give in to the "catastrophic disorganization" (Berger, 2004, p. 339) of something that at the same time is part of the meaning structures that keep us alive. There we are, like babies, vulnerable and shaky with our first steps when accessing new meaning landscapes and coming to know our new forms of identity (see Illeris, 2014) in which we do not yet have confidence. Indeed, how do babies cope with the roller coaster of learning that they seem to be bound to from the moment they come out of the womb? Besides being nourished and kept suitably warm, they need to be held or embraced in the arms of a caring human, to feel the connection and touch. In Finnish language, there is a beautiful word syli to refer to this space between the embracing or holding arms and the front of the body or the space where another person can sit on the flat space of the upper legs of a seated person-as if a body-based place signifying a social space of caring. As the child grows, the time spent in the syli decreases, yet the syli remains as a source to refuel one's internal engine of love, courage, and curiosity. Besides the bodily-based space, syli can also metaphorically refer, for example, to nature-based space of being embraced with sense of caring. The need for hugs and care is innate for us humans.