“…Autoethnographers use iterative cycles of shifting their focus back and forth between social and cultural aspects of personal experience and introspective reflections on their personally engaged selves to explore the interplay between the cultural and the personal (Ellis & Bochner, 2000). For examples of autoethnographies, see Berger, 1997, Butler and Rosenblum, 1991, Ellingson, 1998, Ellis, 1993, Kiesinger, 1998, Norum, 2000, and Tillmann-Healy, 1996 This article will follow the style of the traditional reflexive account in that it frames the analysis and interpretation of findings from my research on work and play in families that have been published elsewhere (Primeau, 1998;Primeau, 2000a;Primeau, 2000b). Ten two-parent families (17 children between the ages of 6 months and 5 years) from the Los Angeles area participated in a qualitative research, multiple methods study (participant observation, intensive interview, questionnaire).…”