Viruses are intracellular parasites that can only replicate and spread in cells of susceptible hosts. Alpha herpesviruses (α-HVs) contain double stranded DNA genomes of at least 120 kb, encoding for 70 or more genes. The viral genome is contained in an icosahedral capsid that is surrounded by a proteinaceous tegument layer and a lipid envelope. Infection starts in epithelial cells and spreads to the peripheral nervous system (PNS). In the natural host, α-HVs establish a chronic latent infection that can be reactivated, rarely spread to the central nervous system (CNS). In the non-natural host, viral infection will in most cases spread to the CNS with often fatal outcome. The host response plays a crucial role in the outcome of viral infection. α-HVs do not encode all the genes required for viral replication and spread. They need a variety of host gene products including RNA polymerase, ribosomes, dynein, and kinesin. As a result, the infected cell is dramatically different from the uninfected cell revealing a complex and dynamic interplay of viral and host components required to complete the virus life cycle. In this review, we describe the pivotal contribution of mass spectrometry-based proteomics (MSBP) studies over the past 15 years to understanding the complicated life cycle and pathogenesis of four α-HV species from the alphaherpesvirinae subfamily: Herpes simplex virus-1 (HSV-1), varicella zoster virus (VZV), pseudorabies virus (PRV) and bovine herpes virus (BHV-1). We describe the viral proteome dynamics during host infection and the host proteomic response to counteract such pathogens.