“…The self‐understanding as being ill is in the literature often connected to considerations of normality in social contexts (Allman et al., 2018; Di Risio et al., 2011; Jaworska, 2018; Koski, 2014; Koteyko & Hunt, 2016; Miller & Caughlin, 2013; Posa et al., 2021; Spencer & Almack, 2022; Voorhees, 2022; Wang et al., 2013), which in two cases is linked to an ableist discourse (Posa et al., 2021; Spencer & Almack, 2022). Examples include reports on ‘feeling defective, abnormal and shameful’ after being labelled ill (Allman et al., 2018, p. 15) or, when struggling with the possibility of being ill, asking: ‘Do I have postnatal depression or is this [a] normal feeling for a new mum of twins?’ (Jaworska, 2018, p. 28).…”