We investigated the impact of donor age (younger [≤35 years] vs. older [>35 years]) after accounting for other non‐HLA and HLA factors on outcomes of patients with acute myeloid leukemia undergoing HLA‐haploidentical hematopoietic cell transplantation (n = 790). The effect differed by conditioning—partly related to the differences in the recipient age in myeloablative (MAC; median 46 years) versus reduced‐intensity/non‐myeloablative conditioning (RIC/NMA; median 61 years) groups. With MAC (n = 320), donor age had no impact on acute graft‐versus‐host disease (GVHD), but older donors were associated with a significantly higher risk of chronic GVHD (hazard ratio [HR]: 1.6, 95% confidence interval [CI]: 1.10–2.30, p = .02) independent of recipient age and other factors. Donor age had no impact on either relapse or non‐relapse mortality (NRM). The impact of donor/recipient age on overall survival changed over time. Older donors were associated with significantly higher late overall mortality (>6 months) in younger recipients (≤ 50 years; HR: 2.2, 95% CI: 1.03–4.6, p = .04) but not older recipients. With RIC/NMA (n = 470), neither recipient's nor donor's age influenced the risk of GVHD. Donor age had no significant impact on the risk of relapse, but older donors were associated with a significantly higher risk of NRM (HR: 1.6, 95% CI: 1.02–2.6, p = .04) independent of recipient age. Older donor age was associated with significantly higher late overall mortality (>9 months) in older recipients (>50 years; HR: 1.66, 95% CI: 1.0–2.67; p = .049) but not in younger recipients. Donor selection based on donor age may require a tailored approach for a particular recipient.