Fear of failure and success are two elements that can easily sabotage top performance. Nowadays, the sensitive elements regarding mental preparation begin to be more and more important. The pressure associated with being on top, the pressure of results and the pressure of life have determined the growth of anxiety in athletes and therefore its influence on developing fears (mainly the fear of failure and success). The sports psychology perspective concerning this issue is based on the toxic expectation cycle and the urgency created by the result-centred objectives (not the progress-related ones). The complementary perspective, inspired by the art of acting, shapes on rejecting whatever is coming, negating whatever is given and blocking the individuals' potential. Taking into consideration these two approaches, the present paper aims to build a detailed picture on the inner perspective of the athletes on this matter, the external perception regarding the attitude and the results of the athlete (the coach, the federation) and the set of methods useful for dealing with fear of failure and success. The paper concludes with a set of recommendations for both athletes and coaches, so that they can maintain a highly functional mental state in situations of crisis and conflict.