Graft copolymers offer a versatile platform for the design of self-assembling materials; however, simple strategies for precisely and independently controlling the thermomechanical and morphological properties of graft copolymers over wide property windows remain elusive. Here, using a library of 92 systematically varied polynorbornene-graft-polydimethylsiloxane (PDMS) copolymers, we discover a versatile backbone-pendant sequence control strategy that overcomes this challenge. We find that small structural variations of aliphatic pendant groups, e.g., cyclohexyl versus n-hexyl, of small molecule comonomers have dramatic impacts on the order-to-disorder transitions, glass transitions, mechanical properties, and self-assembled morphologies of statistical and block silicone-based graft copolymers, providing an exceptionally broad palette of designable materials properties, e.g., elastic moduli that vary over 9 orders-of-magnitude. For example, statistical graft copolymers with very high PDMS volume fractions yielded unbridged body-centered cubic (BCC) morphologies that behaved as ultra-soft, shear-thinning, plastic crystals. By contrast, lamellae-forming statistical graft copolymers provided robust, stiff, yet reprocessable silicone thermoplastics (TPs) with transition temperatures spanning over 160 °C and elastic moduli as high as 150 MPa, which is much greater than commercial silicone thermosets. Altogether, this study reveals a new pendant-mediated assembly strategy that simplifies graft copolymer synthesis and enables access to a diverse family of silicone materials, setting the stage for the broader development of self-assembling materials with tailored performance specifications.