“…Yet, most adult lifespan literature focuses solely on finding age differences in how younger and older adults regulate their own emotions (Gross & John, 2004;Martins, Sheppes, Gross, Mather, 2016;Sheppes, Scheibe, Suri, & Gross, 2011;Sheppes et al, 2014). In general, the emotion regulation literature has been criticized for focusing mainly on how individuals regulate their own emotions (i.e., intrapersonal regulation) and rarely on how others might help with regulation, (i.e., interpersonal emotion regulation; Hofmann, Carpenter, Curtiss, 2016;Thoits, 1996;Zaki & Williams, 2013). While others have referred to this as extrinsic emotion regulation (Zaki & Williams, 2013), interpersonal emotion management (Little, Kluemper, Nelson, & Gooty, 2011), or social regulation of emotion, (Reeck et al, 2016) I use the term "interpersonal emotion regulation" to refer to instances when one person (the regulator) tries to manage the emotions of another (the target).…”