“…Both theoretical and empirical arguments support the view that, over time, family members develop two basic but distinct "senses of influence" regarding each other (De Mol, 2007;Migerode, Buysse, Maes, De Mol, & Cook, 2012a) Migerode, Buysse, Maes, & De Mol, 2012b). On the one hand, a sense that a family member's behaviour can have a pleasant effect on another family member, and on the other hand, a sense that effects can also be unpleasant for the other family member.…”