“…The normative demands on what it means to be a "good" parent have grown, or at least grown in importance. The act of balancing the costs and benefits of having children -both financial and non-financial -has been widely studied to better understand the reasoning behind the choice to have fewer, if any, children today than in the past (Mynarska and Rytel, 2022 [145]; Cools and Strøm, 2020 [146]; Lebano and Jamieson, 2020 [147]). Parents tend to put in increasing amounts of time into raising children, rather than letting children grow up without much intervention, and this holds true especially for parents with higher levels of education (Ellingsaeter, Kitterød and Hansen, 2022 [148]), as postulated by (Becker, 1960[3]).…”