We inhabit phenomenological "money worlds," worlds where money is easy to come by, or hard, where possessions are in the foreground of life or where they are mere backdrops, where exact amounts of money are carefully attended to, or where "nickels and dimes" go by unnoticed. Are our money worlds happy places? I suggest that we can gain insight into these worlds and their satisfactions by considering the interplay of feelings about money on the one hand and material desires on the other. Here are vignettes of how people may regard money and what to spend it on (drawn from descriptions by adult college students):My high paying job let me fulfill my desire to be fashionable and to get compliments from others on my constantly rotating stock of accessories and shoes. My mother asked how I got all this stuff into my tiny house, which was her way of asking how I spent so much money on stuff that I didn't need. I traded in my little sporty coupe for an SUV when I realized my car stood out in the parking lot. I said it was because I wanted the better height with the snow and all wheel drive, but I wanted to fit in with my colleagues' high-price vehicles and so that when it was my turn to drive to lunch those in my car would comment positively. There was really no need to trade in my car since I wound up taking on debt.My father-in-law doesn't believe in frivolous purchases. He actually has quite a bit of money saved through the years of making the right financial moves. It doesn't matter though. He will still yell at the hotdog vendor at the ballpark because he can get the same hotdog for $ 3 cheaper from a street vendor. He hates feeling like he's being ripped off and could care less about name brands. One afternoon we were in an upscale department store. He entertained himself by telling the salespeople that he could buy six shirts at Wal-Mart for the same price as a pair of socks here! My neighbor puts in a great amount of time and effort to search for a good buy. In addition, she finds shopping an enjoyable activity, which causes her to spend even more time and effort bargain hunting. For example, she loves to shop for shoes. If she sees a pair of shoes she likes she will wait to buy them until she checks several other shoe stores to compare which has the best pair of shoes for the price and quality.
M. Tatzel ()