“…As postulated by Redelman (2008), sexuality does not necessarily mean the conflation of male and female genitals but it also includes friendship, cuddling, masturbation, vaginal selfstimulation, relaxation, touching and kissing (Madunagu, 2007;Redelman, 2008). However, prevalent within the family of contextual heteronormative practices is the sub-theme of reproduction and motherhood, which I discuss below.…”