“…For a couple, this path to parenthood means that the partners have to decide which of them will get pregnant (first), a choice that gives the mothers different parental roles as birth mother and non-birth mother, which must be negotiated (Abelsohn, Epstein & Ross, 2013;Hayman, Wilkes, Halcomb, & Jackson, 2013;Wojnar & Katzenmeyer, 2014; see also Ryan, 2013). Donated semen could be provided through sperm banks and fertility clinics, where the donor is anonymous to the parents and the child (Chabot & Ames, 2004;Donovan & Wilson, 2008;Frith, Sawyer & Kramer, 2012;Nordqvist, 2012Nordqvist, , 2014Vanfraussen, Ponjaert-Kristoffersen & Brewaeys, 2001). Some clinics offer identify-release donors, i.e.…”