On Manners is a delightful book. It is, most importantly, philosophically interesting, original, and insightful. In addition, Prof. Stohr has achieved something that I aspire to, but generally fail to realize: she skillfully integrates learned references to classic texts (including the writings of Plato, Aristotle, 1 Thanks to Prof. Stohr for writing her book and for thoughtfully engaging with a non-Western philosophical perspective, to Prof. Erin Cline for organizing a panel on Prof. Stohr's book, to Prof. Yong Huang for allowing us to publish the essays resulting from the panel in Dao, and to two anonymous referees whose comments greatly improved my essay. Kant, Hume, Jane Austen, and Edith Wharton) with pop culture references (including Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Miss Manners, and Martha Stewart). She does all this with a writing style that is clear, elegant, and often quite pithy. Many phrases from this book could become aphorisms. Another aphorist, Ashleigh Brilliant, once quipped, "Philosophers never agree on anything. That is the one thing on which all philosophers agree." This is not quite true. I found myself agreeing with a great many things that Prof. Stohr said. However, admiration for a work of philosophy is best expressed in thoughtful critique, rather than in panegyric. The fundamental claim of Prof. Stohr's book is that ...rules of polite behavior are justified by their basis in commonly held moral principles and ideals, and...they play an essential role in enabling us to act on those principles and ideals. Social conventions...serve as vehicles through which we express important moral values like respect and consideration for the needs, ideas, and opinions of others. (Stohr, 2012: 3-4) Another way she puts this point is through the distinction between "manners" and "etiquette": ...the principles of manners are moral principles, and specific rules of etiquette get their authority from their relationship to those moral principles. ...