The Lewis acid−base complexation reactions of dimethyl-, diphenyl-, and dimesitylsilylene (SiMe 2 , SiPh 2 , and SiMes 2 , respectively) and their germanium homologues (GeMe 2 , GePh 2 , and GeMes 2 ) with diethyl ether (Et 2 O), tetrahydrothiophene (THT), triethylphosphine (Et 3 P), and tricyclohexylphosphine (Cy 3 P) have been characterized in hydrocarbon solvents at 25 °C by laser flash photolysis methods. Together with previously reported (and some new) data for the complexation of the six transient tetrellylenes with methanol (MeOH), tetrahydrofuran (THF), and di-and triethylamine (Et 2 NH and Et 3 N, respectively), the results allow the first systematic assessment of the thermodynamics of Lewis acid−base complexation of simple dialkyl-and diarylsilylenes and their germanium homologues with chalcogen and pnictogen donors in solution. The equilibrium constants (K C ) for complexation of the six species with Et 2 O span a range of ca. 10 5 M −1 , decreasing in the order SiPh 2 > SiMe 2 > GePh 2 > GeMe 2 ≫ SiMes 2 > GeMes 2 . For each homologous MR 2 pair, K C is consistently 10−40 times larger for the silylene than the germylene, indicating a systematic difference in binding free energy of 1.5−2.2 kcal mol −1 . Equilibrium constants have been determined for complexation of SiMes 2 and GeMes 2 with all the donors in the series except Et 3 P, for which only a lower limit can be determined. Those for SiMes 2 decrease in the order Et 3 P > Cy 3 P > Et 2 NH > THT > Et 3 N > THF > Et 2 O; GeMes 2 is consistently less acidic, but its binding constants follow a similar ordering. The experimental data are supplemented with theoretical (Gaussian-4) calculations of thermochemical parameters for the complexation of SiMe 2 and GeMe 2 with 17 O, S, N, and P donors, which are shown to agree with experiment to within 1 kcal mol −1 for the 6 systems that have also been studied experimentally. The calculations confirm that, in general, trialkylphosphines bind most strongly, followed by amines, sulfides, and then ethers and alcohols. SiMe 2 and GeMe 2 are borderline-soft Lewis acids, stronger and softer than trimethylborane in both cases.