The sharp increasing volume of encrypted traffic generated by malware brings a huge challenge to traditional payload-based malicious traffic detection methods. Solutions that based on machine learning and deep learning are becoming mainstream. However, the machine learning-based methods are limited by manual-design features, which have the problem of highly correlated multicollinearity. And both methods rely heavily on a large number of labeled samples, which needs lots of human effort. In this paper, we apply the active learning to the malicious encrypted traffic detection problem and propose AS-DMF framework. AS-DMF is a lightweight detection framework that combine the uncertainty sampling and density-based query strategy to query the informative and representative instances from the sample set and then train them in a detection (DMF) model. Moreover, we propose a feature selection mechanism which can select the meaningful features of traffic efficiently. Our comprehensive experiments on the real-word dataset indicate that AS-DMF achieves lightweighting at both feature and data levels with a high performance of 0.9460 mAcc.