Within dominant approaches to autism and relationships, people with autism are assumed to be either unable to form relationships or are in need for educational interventions to be better equipped at managing relationships in a social world dominated by non-autistic people (neurotypicals). In this paper, we argue that broader constructions of friendship are needed in order to best account for the desire and abilities of high-functioning people with autism to have satisfying friendships and that the engagement with online social networking may provide a useful tool in achieving this.
Keywords: autism; neurotypical; autistic friendshipIn this short paper, we draw on recent developments within critical autism studies where dominant knowledges about autism are scrutinized and autism is considered as a neurological difference rather than a deficit (see for example Armstrong 2010; Davidson and Orsini 2013). From a neurodiversity perspective, autism is viewed as both a possible strength and as a nuanced difference rather than a one-sided shortcoming or deficit. The theoretical position that we are taking of neurodiversity does not seek to identify particular neurological make-up of individuals, but rather seeks to question the status accorded to individuals who have a presumed 'typical' or 'atypical' neurological makeup. The aim is to interrogate how dominant knowledge makes assumptions about neurologically typical and different people which position people with autism as less able. One such dominant knowledge about autism is the assumption of deficits in forming friendships and developing sociality for people with autism.Ochs and Solomon (2010) conceptualize sociality as a range of possibilities rather than a unitary dimension of social behaviour, in which sociality is enacted differently across different social situations and differently by different groups. The skills needed to make and maintain friendships, are seen to be 'a range of possibilities for social coordination with others, and autistic sociality is one of these possible co-ordinations' (Ochs and Solomon 2010, 70). Following Ochs and Solomon, we are interested in the beginning to think differently about the concept of friendship and how high-functioning people with autism experience their emotional lives and friendships. This perspective is combined