“…According to feminist research about shame and its connection to the patriarchy, shame is internalised to regulate Others and their sexuality, implying that the Othered has failed in some way according to norms (Ahmed, 2014;Bartky, 1990;Christianson et al, 2021;Munt, 2008). Shame is also intertwined with historical/traditional and religious norms for women's sexuality through the recurring and thoroughly analysed Madonna-whore dichotomy; this dichotomy essentially leaves two positions available for women, as either good/chaste or bad/promiscuous (Bareket et al, 2018;Conrad, 2006;Kahalon et al, 2019;Tumanov, 2011). Even though this is connected to Christianity, similar norms are found in all Abrahamic religions (Kretschmer et al, 2024;Saharso et al, 2023).…”