Female reproductive failure incorporates several variables, of which failure to mate is often an overlooked aspect. Adult female crab spiders, Misumena vatia (Clerck) (Araneae: Thomisidae), seldom fail to mate (maximum of 4.3%), even though meeting males infrequently because of low population densities, female‐skewed adult sex ratios, and failure to provide males with cues for locating them. Females mate with the first male they encounter, but in contrast to the ‘trade‐up’ strategy of many species in this situation, they usually appear to mate only once. During their short season most females that produce a clutch of eggs do not capture enough prey to reach maximum possible size and fecundity, resulting in a nearly 30% loss of potential production. Another ca. 20% fails to accumulate enough mass to lay a clutch. Nest predation and parasitism, primarily by an ichneumonid wasp and a phorid fly, destroy ca. 25% of the clutches. Thus, failure to mate exacts a much lower cost on adult female M. vatia than do several other factors. Mortality of juveniles greatly exceeds that of the adults, with losses of ca. 90% in the first winter and 35% of those surviving to their second winter.