Due to the rapid popularization of various short distance communication mobile devices, the use scenarios of opportunistic networks are increasing day by day. However, in opportunistic networks, because of the complexity of community structure, many methods lack of symmetry between application and theoretical research. Thus, the connection strength between nodes is different, and the degree of message diffusion is different. If the above factors cannot be accurately estimated and analyzed, and effective data forwarding and scheduling strategies cannot be formulated, the delivery ratio will be low, the delay will be relatively high, and the network overhead will be large. In light of improving symmetry problems in opportunistic networks, this paper establishes the message duplicate adaptive allocation and spray routing strategy (MDASRS) algorithm model, measures the connection strength between nodes through social pressure, and estimates the diffusion of current messages in the network through the probability of messages leaving the current node successfully, so as to develop the self-adaptive control replication transmission mode and achieve the effect of reducing the network burden and network overhead. This is done through experiments and comparison of social network algorithms, comparing the MDASRS with Epidemic, Spray and Wait, and EIMST algorithms. The experiment results showed that this method improves the cache utilization of nodes, reduces data transmission delay, and improves the network’s overall efficiency.