Plurisexual women, or women attracted to multiple genders, are a large and vulnerable population in the United States. Plurisexual women experience higher rates of negative mental, physical, and sexual health outcomes compared with monosexual men and women (i.e., straight, lesbian, or gay). One potential factor underlying the high rates of negative health outcomes among plurisexual women is the pressure to "prove" one's plurisexuality through sexual and/or romantic behavior with persons of more than one gender. The current study used qualitative interviews with 25 plurisexual women of varying identities (e.g., bisexual, pansexual, and queer) who discussed their experiences with the pressure to prove their sexual identities, and what effects this pressure has had on their lives and relationships. Using thematic analysis, we identified two themes across participant responses: (a) external pressure to prove sexual identity and (b) internalized pressure to prove sexual identity. External pressure arose from others demanding plurisexual women disclose their sexual and romantic history, accusing them of faking plurisexuality for attention, and pressuring them into performing sexual acts. The notion that plurisexual women must provide behavioral evidence to be validated as plurisexual was internalized by participants (e.g., checking behavioral boxes, questioning identity due to insufficient "evidence"). The women in our sample discussed how their experiences with external and internalized pressure to prove their plurisexuality were harmful to their sense of identity and their relationships with others. External and internal pressures to prove plurisexuality were also connected to sexually coercive experiences. Our findings highlight two different forms of pressure to prove one's plurisexual identity, which may underlie negative health outcomes among plurisexual women.
Public Significance StatementThe plurisexual women (bisexual, pansexual, queer) in our sample experienced external and internal pressure to prove their sexual identities behaviorally, and were harmed by this pressure. These findings indicate that the pressure to prove phenomenon acts as a pervasive form of binegativity and chronic minority stress in plurisexual women's lives. This phenomenon is detrimental to the psychological wellbeing of plurisexual women and contributes to the erasure of plurisexual women's identities.