MEWUJUDKAN KELUARGA YANG HARMONIS MELALUI AYAT-AYAT NUSYU>Z DAN SYIQA>Q

Abstract

Invention of human is had significance and intention, as invention of a man and a woman. Both of them require each other, like in the family relationship. They have entitlement and obligation to be resposible for their life. If their family relationship has disharmony, as a problem (nusyu>z and syiqa>q). Al-Qur’an give solution to solve it effectively. As we know that the rule of the Qur’an will guide us for happy life in this world and hereafter. Actually Q. Al-Nisa>’ (4): 34 and 35 offer three phase of solution to finish nusyu>z and syiqa>q, like first phase is فَعِظُوهُنَّ, giving good advice or doing persuasive action, etc. The solution of the Qur’anic verses is proportional to make application in human life. So this verses can realize Islam Rahmatan lil ‘Alamîn with happy family, it’s means sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah.

Upaya Mewujudkan Keluarga Sakinah pada Keluarga Petani Desa Pakondang Rubaru Sumenep

“…Untuk mewujudkan keluarga sakinah, maka kondisi dalam keluarga dapat dikatakan baik atau harmonis, bila mana ada hubungan yang baik dan benar-benar didasari ketulusan hati dan rasa kasih sayang, saling hormat menghormati, toleransi, bantu membantu, dan saling mempercayai antar anggota keluarga (M.F. Zenrif, 2006;Jannah, 2019;Asmaya, 2012). Demikianlah salah satu upaya yang dilakukan oleh masyarakat petani desa Pakondang Rubaru Sumenep untuk mewujudkan keluarga sakinah.…”