“…A recent review found 44 studies that demonstrated a decoupling of inner experience and outcomes ( Levin et al, 2015 ). For example, mindfulness-related processes can help people to experience physical pain and still persist at a task ( Gutierrez et al, 2004 ), experience approach oriented thoughts to alcohol and not engage in hazardous drinking ( Ostafin et al, 2012 ), experience urges to smoke and unhelpful thoughts, and not still smoke ( Elwafi et al, 2013 ; Adams et al, 2014 ), experience disordered eating cognitions (e.g., fear of weight gain) and not engage in problem eating behaviors ( Ferrieira et al, 2011 ), and experience negative emotion but not engage in avoidance behavior ( Wolgast et al, 2011 ). This evidence suggests that we can enhance valued action without having to change the content of people’s thoughts, or, metaphorically, to change what the advisor is saying.…”