The quadrupolar splittings of perdeuteriated n-decane dissolved in nematic phases formed by mesogenic dimers of the CBnCB series, for n=7,9,10,11 are measured throughout the entire temperature range of these phases. The results of the measurements, are reported together with related measurements using the common nematic phase of 5CB as a solvent for n-decane. The data obtained from the 13 C spectra of the cyanobiphenyl mesogenic units of the monomeric and dimeric solvent molecules yield the order parameter of those units. The information obtained from this set of experiments is used to elucidate the structure of the low temperature (NX) and the high temperature (N) nematic phases of CBnCB dimers with n=7,9,11. The polar twisted nematic (NPT) model is found to provide a consistent description not only of these measurements, but also of NMR measurements previously reported in the literature for these phases. These findings suggest that the high temperature nematic (N) is not a common, locally uniaxial and apolar nematic, but rather a nematic phase consisting of NPT clusters. The twistbend (NTB) model, often identified with the NX phase, is shown to be inadequate to account even qualitatively for crucial features of the experimental findings.