Research on teenage pregnancy and motherhood inevitably also involves a focus on teenagers' sexuality, intimate interpersonal relationships and reproductive choices. In South Africa, as in the global context, teenage fertility is mostly problematised -assumed to be a social and health concern. South African research shows that teenage pregnancy and parenting cannot be understood outside the complex realms of culture, class and historically racialised differences. In the local context, teenage pregnancy has in the main been approached as inherently problematic, with pregnant girls positioned as vulnerable victims or misguided, 'bad' girls. The negative, pathologising and judgemental response of communities, families, schools and even peers to pregnant and parenting learners at school has been increasingly documented, as has the tendency of researchers and professionals to reproduce and legitimise such discourses. Conducted within a feminist framework and adopting a social constructionist theoretical base, this article is based on a qualitative study of a group of teenage parents at schools in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, and their narratives of their experiences of becoming pregnant. In particular, how this group of young women negotiated the experience of becoming pregnant and the pregnancy and impending parenthood with their family is explored. Findings revealed that experiences of being pregnant and becoming parents are mostly framed within relationships of control, regulation and power, especially in relation to parental authority. Ways in which this group of young women resisted being constructed negatively and punitively and displayed agentic and strategic creativity in negotiating acceptance and support for their pregnancy within their families are highlighted. keywords teenage sexuality, pregnancy, disclosure, agency, qualitative study