“…The central aspect of trauma in unresolved individuals is their attachment disorganization and fear in situations that represent a severe threat to the self (i.e., danger, separation, solitude, loss). In these situations, they are in need of protection and comfort; however, their caregivers cannot help them soothe their hyperarousal, restore safety, and integrate traumatic experiences (Obsuth, Hennighausen, Brumariu, & Lyons-Ruth, 2014;Zilberstein, 2014). From this perspective, the traumatic element is not the frightened or frightening caregivers per se, but the personal experience of their failure to respond appropriately during moments of severe attachment distress.…”