The analysis of the magnetic neutron scattering data for Sm (SmB<sub>6</sub>, Sm(Y)S) and Eu (EuCu<sub>2</sub>Si<sub>2-x</sub>Ge<sub>x</sub>) intermediate valence compounds has been performed in terms of generalized model of the intermediate-radius exciton. A special attention is drawn to the correlation between average ion's valence and parameters of the low energy excitation in the neutron spectra, such as resonance mode, including its magnetic form factor. Along with specific features of the intermediate valence state formation for Sm and Eu ions, common physical mechanisms have been revealed for the systems based on these elements from the middle part of the rare-earth series. The consistent description of the existing experimental data has been obtained by using a loosely bound hole concept for Eu <i>f</i>-electron shell in the intermediate valence state, in analogy with previously established loosely bound electron model for Sm ion.