“…Encountering the Narrative, Suffering, and Agenda of the Other-When and How can this Work Studies in the tradition of the narrative approach to intergroup encounters in conflict relate to the moments in which we encounter the narrative and suffering of the other and to what might determine our response to this essentially difficult encounter ( Bar-On, 2008;Hammack, 2009Hammack, , 2011Maoz, 2011Maoz, , 2018Mor, et al, 2016;Ron & Maoz, 2013;Sternberg et al, 2018;Zigenlaub & Sagy, 2020). Research in this tradition prominently teaches us that such a difficult conversation should be embedded in a longterm, gradually evolving, facilitated dialogue process (Heykoop & Adoch, 2017;Ron & Maoz, 2013;Sternberg, et al, 2018) in order to enable overcoming threat and backlashes (Maoz et al, 2007) and attain some level of acknowledgment or recognition. Importantly, existing research enables us to learn from failures in which the presentation of the narrative and suffering of the outgroup in conflict triggered suspicion, distancing and even verbal violence (Maoz, et al, 2004, Maoz, et al, 2007Mor et al, 2016).…”