“…In a classic book on vaginismus, Friedman (1962) theorized that ''virgin wives'' sought need-based characteristics in their partners such as brotherly companionship, a means for procreation, or a ''battling force of femininity''. Since then, partners of women with vaginismus have been described as less emotionally mature (O'Sullivan, 1979), patient and understanding (Lamont, 1994), and overly anxious and insecure (Ellison, 1968). Others have reported that women with vaginismus sought partners with personalities opposite to their domineering fathers' (Grafeille, 1986;Silverstein, 1989).…”