“…This involves normative beliefs on whether older women should still have sex, the types of sex and sexual desires valued, and how their life paths should unfold (Katz and Marshall, 2004). Those who are queer, disabled, or cannot keep up with the demands of anti-ageing are considered bad, abject, failed, or unsuccessful (Sandberg, 2008) and portrayed in media as unhappy, depressed and miserable (Krainitzki, 2015(Krainitzki, , 2016.…”