A typical nanotribology simulation setup is the semi-infinite substrate, featuring a sliding bead on top, and with the lower substrate layers thermostatted to control temperature. A challenge is dealing with phonons that backreflect from the substrate lower boundary, as these will artificially reduce the friction F fr acting on the sliding bead. One proposed solution is to use a Langevin thermostat, operating at temperature T lan , and with the corresponding damping parameter, γ, optimally tuned such that F fr is maximized [Benassi et al., Phys. Rev. B 82, 081401 (2010)]. In this paper, the method is revisited, and related to the substrate phonon lifetime, the substrate temperature T sub , and the sliding speed. At low sliding speed, where the time between stick-slip events is large compared to the phonon lifetime, we do not observe much dependence of F fr on γ, and here thermostat tuning is not required. At high sliding speed, upon varying γ, we confirm the aforementioned friction maximum, but also observe a pronounced minimum in T sub , which here deviates from T lan . For substrate particle interactions that are strongly anharmonic, the variation of F fr with γ can be understood as a manifestation of thermolubricity, backreflections being essentially unimportant. In contrast, for harmonic interactions, where phonon lifetimes become very long, F fr is strongly affected by backreflecting phonons, though not enough to overturn thermolubricity. arXiv:1904.02470v1 [cond-mat.mtrl-sci]