A complete analysis of the vibrational dynamics of the most important molecule in the field of organic superconductors, bis(ethylenedithio)-tetrathiafulvalene (BEDT-TTF), has been performed through first-principles calculations. Different ionization states have been investigated, both as isolated BEDT-TTF unit, and as symmetric self-dimer. The ionization process affects the frequencies of some vibrations, the "charge sensitive modes", but also their intensities. In particular, a 100-fold increase in the infrared intensity of the antisymmetric CdC stretching mode is predicted to occur upon removal of one electron. The discovery of this dramatic difference will help to interpret the spectral phenomena observed in correspondence to the charge-order processes undergone by some BEDT-TTF salts. The electronmolecular vibration (e-mv) coupling and its effects on the infrared spectra is also fully reanalysed by adopting the proper molecular symmetry of the BEDT-TTF + monomer, and by investigating (BEDT-TTF) 2 2+ and (BEDT-TTF) 2 + dimers. A new approach to estimate the relative values of the e-mv coupling constants is proposed.