“…However, as D‐L Stewart observed, “racially and ethnically minoritized students are always already gritty because, too often, they have had to deal with toxic educational environments” (Stewart, , p. 631). Prior research demonstrates that this is also the case for student affairs professionals who are racially and ethnically minoritized (Linder, Harris, Allen, & Hubain, ) and who identify as lesbian and gay (Kortegast & van der Toorn, ). Our stories in this chapter confirm and augment these findings in relation to our salient minoritized identities.…”