SummaryMesh optimization procedures are generally a combination of node smoothing and discrete operations which affect a small number of elements to improve the quality of the overall mesh. These procedures are useful as a post‐processing step in mesh generation procedures and in applications such as fluid simulations with severely deforming domains. In order to perform high‐order mesh optimization, these ingredients must also be extended to high‐order (curved) meshes. In this work, we present a method to perform local element operations on curved meshes. The mesh operations discussed in this work are edge/face swaps, edge collapses, and edge splitting (more generally refinement) for triangular and tetrahedral meshes. These local operations are performed by first identifying the patch of elements which contain the edge/face being acted on, performing the operation as a “straight‐sided one" by placing the high‐order nodes via an isoparametric mapping from the master element, and smoothing the high‐order nodes on the elements in the patch by minimizing a Jacobian‐based high‐order mesh distortion measure. Since the initial “straight‐sided guess” from the placement of the nodes via the isoparametric mapping frequently results in invalid elements, the distortion measure must be regularized which allows for mesh untangling for the optimization to succeed. We present several examples in 2D and 3D to demonstrate these local operations and how they can be combined with a high‐order node smoothing procedure to maintain mesh quality when faced with severe deformations.