“…The abuse is often physical, including pushing, grabbing, shoving, shaking, throwing things, and slapping. Bond, Penner, and Yellen (1995) found middle-aged sons to be the most common abusers, and Godkin, Wolf, and Pillemer (1989) reported that the largest proportion of abusers in their study were either sons or husbands. Sharon (1991) confirmed the preceding profile noting that spouses and sons were more likely than daughters to be abusers.…”